Sunday, June 28, 2009

Sweet Madeline

Our vacation started with the type of excitement you'd prefer to not start a vacation with. We've known since March that Madeline was going to need surgery for a double hernia repair. She was so brave and did wonderfully!While there seemed to be chaos all around us, Madeline was the calm in the storm in the recovery area. She listened to music on my ipod and we waited to be given the all clear to get the hell outta there go home!
Once home we sacked out on the couch (it was an early morning) and started to push fluids into her. We watched movies and read new books. Emily and Ashley came to visit for a bit (they stayed the night before and the night of at my parents' house) right when Maddie started to ask for them. After their visit I got Maddie to sleep for a couple hours.Uncle Mike came by to visit on his way home (Aunt Chelle came with us to the hospital and sat with us) but we didn't want to wake her up so we took this picture to show her that he was there.By the next day she was getting up and walking around like nothing happened. It was a challenge to keep her calm (and from breaking out into dance!). Her sisters returned and all was right in the world. Surgery was on Monday and on Thursday we hit Disneyland for the last time before our summer blockout of our passes. Ice Cream on Main Street U.S.A.! I did make Maddie ride in a stroller the entire time and we only went on the train, Small World and the Tiki Room. We also watched the new Celebrate Parade. Maddie was wanting more- but we didn't push it! One week post-op and you'd never know she went through what she did! We want to say thank you to everyone that sent us a note/email/comment. That came to visit or called. While we know this was a "routine" procedure- it still was our baby that it was happening to! Her follow up appointment today went great and we are officially done with that doctor (we did love him!). She's been cleared to start swimming this weekend! Seaside "Gagoon" here we come!!!!

Friday, June 26, 2009

We have Kindergarteners!

We are a week into summer vacation and my head is still swirling with the events of the last few weeks! I will slowly post on the happenings over the next few days as I have lots to tell you- but summer is calling as well as 3 stir crazy kiddos that are getting tired of being inside!
Last week we had the girls Pre-k Graduation ceremony at school. They were very excited but sad to say good-bye to their teacher, assistant and classmates. The girls will be attending a different school in the fall that is close to home and the same school that Rick and I attended!
Ready for the big day!The program had awards presentations, music and food!
Here Ashley is coming down to receive her award in Art!Emily received an award for Reading!Madeline received the Principal's Award for her class for academic and citizenship excellence- she is so proud of her trophy! We are so proud of her! She is reading at a 4th grade level!!!! WOW!They sang a really cute song about the woods- Maddie got to be the tree (Ashley is in the back row, opposite corner of Maddie- she was grass).Emily filled in last minute for a student not there and got to be the nest.They also sang a song with the 50 states and one about going on a bear hunt. Very cute!The O'Connors in front of the school mural. We are so proud of our girls and all that they accomplished this year! They have grown so much academically and socially- they never cease to amaze us!
How old will YOU be in 2022 when the girls graduate from High School??We finished the day off with dinner at Hoff's Hut with Grandpa, Grammie and Aunt Susie.

Ready for summer to begin!!!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Words Can Not Describe...

Imagine if you can your 13 closest friends. The ones who totally get you. You've known some of them for over 3 years. You've laughed, cried, cheered and celebrated every moment of their lives and they yours. You can tell them anything and they will not judge, just support. I spent a weekend June 12-14th with 13 ladies just like this, my support network, my rocks, my cheerleaders, my shoulders... it was amazing! Want to know the most amazing part- more than 1/2 of them I had never "met" before that Friday!

I've been a part of an online/email triplet group for some time now (many of their blogs are linked in my sidebar). From this group I have built a life-long friendship with these amazing moms of multiples and we email often. A few months ago we started to discuss meeting up and well- what better place than VEGAS? Plans were set in motion- soon we had hotel rooms and travel plans booked and it was a reality! We were actually going to be able to give more than a virtual hug! The anticipation began to build as the weekend got closer!

June 12, 13, 14, 2009 will forever be in my heart as the weekend I got to hug and HEAR my closest friends. We have shared 1000's of emails (literally!) and yet some of us had never spoken to each other and we laughed over the fact that we didn't know how to pronounce some last names!

I was one of the last to arrive in Vegas Friday night, with Tanya M (we have 3 Tanyas!)- we drove in. We surprised the group by arriving early- only to find they had all gone downtown! We took the chance to get settled into our room, change and sample the Mai Tais we brought (delivered to me by Eve the day before). When at last word came that everyone was coming my heart swelled and I was so excited! The first person entered our room and well, words just can not describe the emotion and feeling I went through to finally see these women in person, who mean so much to me. I know I screamed in excitement, there were lots of hugs. (and yes- security was called- BOO!) We were like old friends just picking up conversations where we had left off online. 14 moms of multiples- 57 kids between all of us (some have more than the triplets!)-on our own in Vegas and we hit the town running from there and had the most amazing weekend! We'd gather as one and then part on to do separate things through out the weekend. The only thing on our agenda- to enjoy each others company and have fun. Mission accomplished!
Where were all the kids you ask? Our wonderful husbands, and extended families in some cases, all took the reigns at home and held it all together so that we could have this much needed weekend. We were sad that 2 of our friends were not able to join us and thought about them all weekend. We hope that our plans next time will be able to have them join us too. Oh yes - there WILL be a next time!!!
Our shirts say, "M.O.M. of Multiples: Ditched the Kids for Vegas" (we weren't too excited about leaving everyone at home now were we?) To the ladies that journeyed to Vegas and the 2 that did not, thank you so much for your continued love and support all these years. It was wonderful to finally see some of you face to face, talk without waiting for a delayed answer and laugh out loud without the virtual LOL's. We were brought together by this amazing thing that is having triplets and yet- it is the bonds that have formed as a result that will keep us friends forever!

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day!

Rick is trying to sleep right now and I am TRYING to keep the natives quiet (though right now they are pretending to roar like lions- sigh) so I had them answer the following questions about their amazing dad in honor of the day.

1. What is something Daddy always says to you?
Emily: Listen

Ashley: donkey words

Madeline: be nice, care

2. What makes Daddy happy?
Emily: when I listen

Ashley: he loves me

Madeline: when I play nice

3. What makes Daddy sad?
Emily: when I don’t listen

Ashley: when I don’t give him a hug

Madeline: when I want to be the boss

4. How does Daddy make you laugh?
Emily: when he says donkey words

Ashley: when he says “donkey”

Madeline: when he tickles me

5. How old is Daddy?
Emily: 14

Ashley: 10

Madeline: 13

6. How tall is Daddy?
Emily: very tall

Ashley: big!

Madeline: very tall

7. What is Daddy’s favorite thing to do?
Emily: play with us

Ashley: play with me

Madeline: play

8. What does Daddy do when you're not around?
Emily: go to work

Ashley: plays on the computer

Madeline: go to work

9. What is Daddy really good at?
Emily: fixing the tv

Ashley: making kitties with me

Madeline: making cars

10. What is Daddy not so good at?
Emily: building stuff

Ashley: reading long books

Madeline: finding what he’s looking for

11. What is Daddy’s job?
Emily: going to work

Ashley: working

Madeline: going to work

12. What is Daddy’s favorite food?
Emily: toast and peanut butter

Ashley: rice

Madeline: chicken or something like that

13. What do you and Daddy do together?
Emily: build stuff (because I am very smart and can find the pieces)

Ashley: read books that are not long

Madeline: play

14. How do you know Daddy loves you?
Emily: he comes places with us

Ashley: because he gives me lots of kisses and hugs

Madeline: he gives me kisses and hugs


Love those honest answers! :) Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there! LOTS of updates coming soon- we are officially on VACATION!!!!!

Sunday, June 7, 2009

We love the NICU doctors and nurses!

Last weekend we attended the annual NICU Graduates party at the hospital the girls were born at. These doctors and nurses hold a special place in our heart and we love going to visit them! While the girls were born almost to term (35 weeks!) they were still early and had to spend some time in the NICU- Emily and Maddie stayed for 3 weeks and Ashley for 5 weeks. We are VERY fortunate that none of our girls needed any serious medical intervention when they were born. They just had to learn how to eat and to grow.

As a new mom- a new triplet mom- that went through 2 1/2 months of bed rest and really nothing of a "normal" pregnancy, it was very rewarding to make it as far as I did and have such healthy babies- however- one of the hardest things we had to do was leave our babies at the hospital when I was discharged. The doctors and nurses there made this difficult time easier. We knew these men and women loved our babies and would take the very best care of them when we weren't there. We could call any time of the day or night and get updates (and we did). They did all they could to educate us on our precious little bundles so that we could leave with confidence in our ability to care for them.

Below is a picture of the girls with Dr. M~ she is the doctor that was in the delivery room when the girls were born and oversaw their immediate care. We have her voice in the video talking with us. She is the one that also let us take our first family picture in the delivery room and also allowed the girls to be properly introduced to the many family members waiting anxiously in the hall before they were taken to the NICU.

I will forever be grateful to the doctors and nurses at our hospital! And I love that they have a party every year to invite us all back and celebrate!